Eric and Michael have a Nintendo DS that they love to play when we let them. One of the games is called Elite Beat Agents. It is kindof like dance-dance-revolution, except you use your stylus instead of moving your body. So, one of the songs they play is "Material Girl". We all remember this song. I remember being in my bed (the big one in the big room) growing up when the song was new. Chris' room was the "funny room", and he had a radio. I didn't. Every time I would hear this song playing - lying in bed when I should probably have been asleep - I would yell at Chris to turn the radio up so I could hear this song. It was so cool. Well, here I am as a mother, YEARS later, and the song has come full circle. We even heard it on "the jet station" on the radio and the boys got all excited about their song being on the radio. It got me thinking - now that I'm old enough to understand the lyrics - about the message...and about this blog that I needed to type...
So, I know that being a "material girl" isn't cool or even good if you're a "good Mormon" and you're not supposed to be into material things. I know that things of a more spiritual nature are definately more important in life than "stuff". I've lived quite some time without "stuff" that I've wanted (and I still do, but thats ok). But, I have finally reached a point in life where I have a few material things that some of you may think are common or silly to be glad for...but, for me its a big deal! I've come to finally own, and appreciate, a few things that I have been dreaming about having for quite some time (most of my married life at least). So, I want to pay tribute to the simple things in life that can make me so happy. There are some objects that I now have that really have helped me find moments of joy and happiness! And, please realize that it is because of my husband's going to work and making money that we are finally able to afford some of these things in life. So, thanks Jim for being a good provider and allowing me the chance to have and enjoy some nice "things" in life!
Here are a few of my favorite things...while I am "living in a material world."
Garage door opener! I haven't been allowed to pull the truck into the garage yet - we're refinishing the floor so that when it leaks it doesn't ruin the garage - but I own a garage door opener! It goes to MY garage that I am going to pull into and out of, without having to scrape the truck in the winter or run through the rain to get into. No more going up and down slippery outside stairs or getting cold between the house and the car. I can't wait to move into the garage!

Dishwasher! I own a dishwasher! For the first time in my married life - 8 years - I don't have to hand wash every dish, pot, pan, spoon, etc. we use. It's not a fancy one, definately not the best quality out there, but I'm glad to have it. I'm hoping to have less chapped hands this winter. Doing the dishes isn't really a chore anymore. In fact, I enjoy my dishwasher. It stores the dirty dishes - they don't sit in my sink anymore until I get around to washing them...all I have to remember to do is turn it on and unload it so the next dirties can go in. The picture above is of me turning it on for the first time-in June. Yeah for a dishwasher!
A couch! We didn't move our couch with us out of the basement. The only way it was going to come out is in pieces, so we left it there. We therefore didn't have a couch in our house, which I didn't think would be any big deal. Then I reached a point with this pregnancy where I needed to lie down for a few hours each morning (and this was not my nap time, either). Its really hard to lie down on a chair and get any kind of rest - especially when you need your head to be as low as your feet. One day, while out garage sale-ing, I saw a "free" sign on a couch, and after taking the camper shell off of the truck Jim and I were able to bring this really nice couch home. It turns out that the previous owners were planning to put it in their basement, but it didn't fit down, and they had to get rid of it because the new couch arrived the next day. How nice to have a couch - especially as I'm pregnant and I'm at the point of needing a couch to prop my feet up!
Curtains! It's been a pain for me to get the right curtains, and then to get all of them the same shade of brown (you would think that if you bought 5 at the store you would get at least 3 the same fabric dye, but that's not the case!). Now that they are up, its great. We finally have some privacy, and they block out the very bright morning sun coming in our back door and window by the kitchen table. And, it also prevents the neighborhood children from coming by at all hours of the day, sticking their faces against our sliding door windows, and leaving dirt marks as they invade our privacy by watching us!

A mail key! We have our own mail key and our own little box #14 we get to open every day. Its been 6 years for us, sharing one with Jim's family. Yes, it does get filled with bills more than letters from friends and family, but its kindof a daily ritual for us to get the mail. That picture of Eric was taken in June, when he and Michael were still fighting about who "gets to" check the mail - not who "has to" check the mail. How fun it is to have our own slot in the box (and the house belonging to the number attached to the slot!)

Washer/dryer! How nice it is to have a washer and dryer. No going to the laundry mat to put in coins and wait forever while your clothes wash. I love being able to put laundry in the wash, go about my day, and switch it later at my own convenience. I can wash while I'm sleeping, and I don't even have to wait for someone else to take their clothes out of the dryer before I can use it. Yeah for having a laundry room with a washer and dryer in it!
A bedroom that isn't a hallway! I came out of our master bathroom the other day and it brought a smile on my face to see how big my master bedroom is! It's not huge, but it is probably twice the size of any of them we've been in our whole married lives. Our bed isn't the focal point of the room, it seems to be a piece of furniture now that it doesn't take the entire room by itself. And, with our dressers in the room, we still have a good sized piece of carpet in the middle of our room! No more "hallway" created by the space between the bed and the dressers!
A closet - of my own! Jim and I have always had to share our closet. The last time I had a closet of my own was when I lived in Cox with my roommates. I now have a closet that is twice the size of the one Jim and I shared in the basement - with plenty of room to fill it up!

Crockpots and rice cookers! You can cook a whole meal in less than 10 minutes of effort if you use these amazing appliances! I don't have to be "cooking dinner" when we're all hungry - and it cooks dinner (or breakfast, or lunch, or even dessert) without turning on the oven...which has been really nice on days when its hot already! Talk about 2 great inventions!
Since I've started this post Aug. 24th, and not finished yet, I've been able to add a few things to my listof what I'm grateful for! These are things that have made life even easier than before, and its great! Here they are...

A deep freezer! What a nice thing to have! September 5 I had a 14.5 cu ft chest freezer delivered to my garage! Let "normal" life begin! I'm back to my normal way of shopping the sales and stocking up! Yes, I do have 20 1/2 gallons of milk in the freezer (at $1 for a 1/2 gallon, it was a huge steal) - but I don't have to go to the store for a long time now! Between the frozen milk and bread, we're covered for a while (unless there is another good deal I need to stock up on!) The part that I'm really appreciating right now is that I've been able to double a few recipes and freeze them for when baby comes. My goal is to double 2 meals a week, so by the time she comes we'll have 2 weeks of food in the freezer ready to pull out and eat when I don't have the time/energy to cook, let alone get to the grocery store. YEAH for freezer space!

Epoxy coating on the garage floor! The picture above is oil, which dripped out of the truck (which was finally allowed in the garage!), and sat for 5 days on our epoxy coated garage floor. All it took to clean it up was a wipe of the paper towel. I kid you not, it was that easy! What a great thing! It was totally worth all of Jim's effort to put it on the garage. Thanks everyone for your advice on the way-it was a success!
That was a long list of stuff, I feel like I was bragging. But, that is not the intent at all. I am truly grateful for these things. I've been surprised at the random things I've found myself so happy to have. I've had almost child-like joy as I've used these things that have helped make life easier or more enjoyable for us. I've realized that sometimes in life, having things does make a difference. The trick is to remember to be grateful for them and enjoy them, and not take them for granted. And maybe the even harder part is not feeling sorry for ourselves that we don't have something. Let's be glad for what we have, finding joy in our simple and commonplace things
So, the question to you, my friends and family: are you "a material girl...living in a material world" or do you appreciate the things you have around you?